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Most men and women like to think that in a
relationship, it should feel comfortable and safe
and “easy” most of the time.
And most men and women have the strong
subconscious belief that the people who have good
long-term committed relationships were just lucky
enough to find that magic person who eliminates
all the resistance, obstacles and challenges other
couples experience.
But the opposite is true.
Open, honest, “real” relationships still have
lots of challenges, doubts, “phases” and fears in
them.
In fact, in a way, they have more challenges
because both people are truly open and honest
about who they are and what they’re feeling.
The difference is how both people in the
relationship accept, understand, and deal with
these “realities.”
Do you panic, creating more emotional
uncertainty, and negative disconnected feelings?
Or are you calm, confident, and assured in a
way that lets your lover know things aren’t going to be
difficult and tiresome with you in the future?
-Christian Carter
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phelsiinophel:(via lottes)
God twitpictured heaven.
Here you have it.
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